As promised, piss play kicked into high gear just as soon as winter ended.
First came the FLUID party, held at the Folsom Center in San Francisco. As is traditional at FLUID events, it was open to all, and centered folks often under-represented at kink events, so we had a nice mix of bodies in and around the various play stations: the big piss pool, the sling, and the shallow “wrestling pool.” Folks arrived hydrated and ready to play, and continued to chug down the various juices, waters and sodas provided. A live DJ definitely helped set the mood.
[I’ve observed that sometimes the music at sex and kink events is played at too high a volume, perhaps because DJs are used to dance parties where nobody needs to hear each another. At piss parties particularly, I think, the conversation, whether friendly banter or pseudo-aggressive “drink it all, pig”, is a part of the scene, and I appreciate music that supports but doesn’t interfere with that.]
The folks, as noted, were a nice mix of novice and experienced piss fans, and I think a few folks got to play in ways they had never experienced before. I am not sure that starting at 4 pm on a Saturday was ideal; I think that next month it will start at 5 pm on a Sunday, which may work better. I plan to walk there after tanking up at one of SOMA’s Sunday afternoon beer busts!
Two weeks after FLUID, I drove out into the Mojave desert for a “Wet and Wild” weekend at the Starland Retreat. More than 30 guys were there (the picture only shows some of them).
The weather was near-perfect: warm enough to be naked and wet but not sweltering or dehydrating. There was good food, fun conversations, some game-playing, and a whole lot of pissing.
The setup had all the amenities: a comfortable HQ / dining hall, gang showers, jacuzzi, buddy open-air outhouses, plus a sling, a piss pool, multiple rimchairs, massage tables, and so on.
At one point we trekked (naked, of course) a short way out to an ancient stone labyrinth, which we walked to the center of.
Then we ritually and respectfully pissed on it (and each other).
On Saturday, three of us drove into Los Angeles to attend the “Latrine Duty Six” party, held in the back of the Rough Trade gear store.
It was as wild as you might imagine: puppies playing with animalistic abandon, guys getting piss-fucked in slings, and a guy from the Howard Stern show interviewing guys as they played.
This picture series shows me assuming my most vulnerable stance, getting pissed on, and then answering questions about the experience:
While there, I learned that the next Los Angeles Latin Fetish Weekend is scheduled for September 3-6, 2026. I haven’t seen the details (their website hasn’t been updated yet), but if it is anything like last year, it could make for another interesting trip south, especially if combined with the next Wet and Wild weekend at Starland (set for September 11-13).
We left the Latrine Duty party in time to return to the desert before dark, for more piss play and other adventures. At one point I curled up with two guys on a comfortable mattress and we pissed on each other in a puppy pile. That was only one of the things I did that weekend that I had never done before.
Oh yeah, we also got up close and personal with a rattlesnake, but that’s a story for a different website.
Anyway, those were some of the highpoints of MY April. Let’s hope the summer just keeps getting wetter and wilder.