“Piss and Moan!”: For ♂ Only!

The most recent “Piss and Moan!” party was on Sunday, February 16, 2020, at SF Catalyst, 1060 Folsom Street, San Francisco (map).  If you missed, my sympathies.  It was hot.  

I can’t say when the next party will be.  But once the current unpleasantness is over, watch out!  

You might want to get on the Yellow and Black Email List, to be sure you get notified of the next event.  (See bottom of this page for instructions.)  

Want to make sure that we have a place for the party when things restart?  Why not not become a Catalyst “Patron”? Your ongoing monthly donation will earn you fun benefits, and will help keep SF Catalyst open and serving our communities. Visit their Patreon Campaign for details or to sign up!

For more information about our community’s response to COVID-19, and how you can help, click here.

But meanwhile, here is what our parties are like!

This is a party for guys who are into piss scenes, possibly with a little extra touch of kink:  dominance, submission, bondage, even a little pain with your piss.  Want to beg your top for some of his sweat or spit?  Go ahead!  Role-play or fantasy elements can add to the fun, too.  Of course vanilla sex, simple watersports, or dry land BDSM scenes are also very welcome.   And if you just want to amuse yourself quietly as you watch the action, that’s fine too.

Remember:  start tanking up (drinking water, juice, beer, etc.) at least two hours before the party starts.  You’ll be glad you did!


SF Catalyst features more than 2,000 square feet of dungeon, play and social space well stocked with BDSM furniture.



piss pool at the Yellow and Black party

The large, watersports-friendly shower can hold 6 or more people easily, and we will also have a plastic wading pool and/or a bathtub for more wet play.

Shower bondage

Tickets will be $20 (plus fee) in advance , or $30 at the door.  Advance ticket sales end Saturday night at midnight.

Discounts for volunteers are available; write to the address at the bottom of this page to volunteer.

All proceeds will be donated to the San Francisco Bay Area Leather Alliance, to keep the doors open at the all-volunteer SF Catalyst space.

    • Bring your own beer in cans; soft drinks and salty snacks will be provided.
    • Be 18+ with ID.  Be 21+ if you plan to bring beer.
    • Anyone who identifies as a male is welcome.
    • Consent is sexy. No means NO.
    • Wet play in designated areas only.
    • Naked is great, rubber or other wet-friendly fetish gear and toys welcome, or wear anything you don’t mind getting wet. We recommend you keep some kind of shoes on.
    • Electronic lockers are provided to help keep your possessions safe and dry.
    • We regret to advise that this venue is not wheelchair accessible.

    • This event will be posted on Fetlife and Facebook.  But to always be among the first to hear about our parties, please sign up for the Yellow and Black mailing list, using the instructions below.

Remember, the “Piss and Moan!” parties are for men only; the “Drench” parties are for anyone over 18.